Good-girl-gone-queer Lindsay Lohan, divorced single mother Britney Spears, Caitlyn Jenner with her sultry poses, Kim Kardashian having the gall to show up on the cover of Vogue with her black husband: All of them are tied to the tracks and gleefully run over, less for what they've done than for the threat they pose to the idea that female sexuality fits within a familiar and safe pattern. If control over women's bodies were the sole point of the trainwreck, that would be terrifying enough. But it's only the beginning: Shame and fear are used to police pretty much every aspect of being female. After you've told someone what to do with her body, you need to tell her what to do with her mind. .Sady Doyle
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No matter what women do, men will find a way to blame them for it. Men will always blame women for everything that goes wrong. The reason is that they've been conditioned to think that women are responsible for the thoughts and feelings of other men. They're not responsible for other people's thoughts and feelings.
They're responsible for their own thoughts and feelings. That's why men always say, “The way you think is the way you look; The way you look is the way you think.”
Source: Trainwreck: The Women We Love To Hate, Mock, And Fear... And Why
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